A Pandemic Time Out: Making Space for Sadness

A Pandemic Time Out: Making Space for Sadness

In April 2020, I wandered our local Walmart pushing a cart of odds and ends.  I always feel a little separate from myself when I’m shopping, but this time, with the “lock down” extended another three weeks, my fellow shoppers mirrored my wide-eyed uncertainty.  Toilet paper, flour, dry beans, hand sanitizer…what else? What else? Finding…

Biracial Belonging

Biracial Belonging

Life-altering revelations are a bit like electrical storms. They thunder in without much warning, striking the often unaware. Like the moment I knew I was with “the one.” The backdrop for this realization wasn’t what I expected. There was no Oscar-worthy score or cinematic sunset. Just dark clouds hanging over the horizon instead.  Love was…

Exchanging Guilt for Joy in a Season I Didn’t Expect

Exchanging Guilt for Joy in a Season I Didn’t Expect

It was nothing short of a miracle that there was a church—a Protestant church—at the end of my street. I hadn’t been in Yelabuga, Russia, for two weeks, yet I already felt crushed by the loneliness and spiritual darkness that hung heavy over the city. The Fulbright program had catapulted me and my idealism into…

Invited: The Power of Hospitality in an Age of Loneliness

Invited: The Power of Hospitality in an Age of Loneliness

Coming into marriage, my husband and I had very different experiences with hospitality. I grew up in a socially “quiet” family. My parents’ friends never stopped by unannounced (or practically ever) and I can only recall one memory of our family hosting a party. We only saw our relatives every few years because they lived…