The Importance of Finishing
LARA KRUPICKA is an internationally published parenting journalist and author. She is best known for her Bucket List Life Manifesto and her books, Family Bucket Lists and Bucket List Living For Moms. Lara’s work has been published in dozens of magazines and newspapers including The LA Times, San Diego Family, Family Australia Magazine, Calgary’s Child, and the Chicago Sun Times. She is the events editor for Suburban Family magazine and also serves on the executive board of the Redbud Writers Guild. Lara and her husband Mike are raising their three daughters in the western suburbs of Chicago.
The moment is seared into my brain, not unlike a branding iron on a young calf. It was November 2010. Although, actually, it had started the year before at a conference for youth workers… “Don’t waste your words,” the speaker had uttered in that dramatic-almost-whisper that speakers do to make a point. “You have experiences from…
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What dreams do you have for your writing life? To publish a book? Become a best-selling author (with your dream book)? To change the world? Writers are dreamers. Whether we write fiction or not, we live in a world of imagination. We imagine our readers and how our words will entertain them, move, them, inspire…
Here at Redbuds, we like to say we “create in community and foster a safe sisterhood of creatives.” There’s not a spirit of competition, but only one of building each other up and encouraging one another.
As my world got busier, I silenced the small voice that kept whispering, “But I asked you to write.” But that whispering voice, the one that wouldn’t remain silent, kept pushing, “But I asked you to write.”
I went to a writers’ workshop 2 years ago (the first ever I’d attended), and one of the leader’s comments stayed with me: she said nothing we write is ever wasted “unless we don’t finish it.” I was surprised and a bit humbled by that because I had/have several unfinished stories that I enjoyed writing at the time but didn’t really have the discipline to carry through to their finished state. I had enjoyed the process of writing them and the revisions I did on them, so wasn’t that enough? The workshop leader, in her gentle way, reminded me that there was more to it. Since then I have made more of an effort to push past the “wall” and complete these pieces. I really like your point about completion being an investment in ourselves as writers. Thank you for another little boost of inspiration!
Love it, Lara! Well said.
love this. there is such power in simplicity. As my mentor once told me the writer is the one completing the writing, not just talking about it. Sometimes the hardest part is taking all the glitter that is swirling in your head and funneling it toward the paper. And then sprinkling it out to let it land its magic:)
lindsay
great advice…