The Importance of Finishing
LARA KRUPICKA is an internationally published parenting journalist and author. She is best known for her Bucket List Life Manifesto and her books, Family Bucket Lists and Bucket List Living For Moms. Lara’s work has been published in dozens of magazines and newspapers including The LA Times, San Diego Family, Family Australia Magazine, Calgary’s Child, and the Chicago Sun Times. She is the events editor for Suburban Family magazine and also serves on the executive board of the Redbud Writers Guild. Lara and her husband Mike are raising their three daughters in the western suburbs of Chicago.
I am so sick of fame and fortune. Sigh… You may wonder what in the world I’m talking about since I’m not famous. Most likely you don’t know me. Not even everyone in my writing group, the Redbud Writers Guild, knows me. And as for fortune, I’m sure I would be considered fabulously wealthy if…
I noticed something interesting as we made our way through New Orlean’s restaurant scene last spring, and it’s transforming the way I think about my writing career: the highest rated restaurants were known for one good dish. New Orleans is an old city, and many of the highly rated dining establishments have been around for…
I decided to attend the popular girl’s party and overcome the fear of being an imposter. It was beyond anything I could have anticipated.
Dear Reader, What’s so holy about going to the grocery store? Or doing laundry? Or taking a meal to a sick friend? Or changing a diaper? You might think of sacraments as things like the Eucharist (Communion) or Baptism, or Marriage. But when we do all that we do for Christ and in Christ, we…
Sometimes I think of faith as a void and then I will immediately backtrack over my thoughts with what I have been told the answer is. I suppose that if faith is the size of a mustard seed, then it’s possible that it is so small that it’s imperceptible until it springs a bud. In…
When I recently transitioned from pastoring to writing, the learning curve was much steeper than I anticipated. I foolishly assumed that since I had been crafting sermons and talks on a weekly basis, I would be able to seamlessly redirect my creativity. I been warned about how insanely competitive and arduous a writer’s life could…
I went to a writers’ workshop 2 years ago (the first ever I’d attended), and one of the leader’s comments stayed with me: she said nothing we write is ever wasted “unless we don’t finish it.” I was surprised and a bit humbled by that because I had/have several unfinished stories that I enjoyed writing at the time but didn’t really have the discipline to carry through to their finished state. I had enjoyed the process of writing them and the revisions I did on them, so wasn’t that enough? The workshop leader, in her gentle way, reminded me that there was more to it. Since then I have made more of an effort to push past the “wall” and complete these pieces. I really like your point about completion being an investment in ourselves as writers. Thank you for another little boost of inspiration!
Love it, Lara! Well said.
love this. there is such power in simplicity. As my mentor once told me the writer is the one completing the writing, not just talking about it. Sometimes the hardest part is taking all the glitter that is swirling in your head and funneling it toward the paper. And then sprinkling it out to let it land its magic:)
lindsay
great advice…