“Why are you crying? Don’t cry. Shake it off. You’ll feel better tomorrow. Smile. Shouldn’t you be over it by now?” These are a few of the messages I heard surrounding my tears growing up. I heard them on the softball field, in the classroom, from family, from...
God of the Anxious
When I was 18 years old, I was diagnosed with social anxiety disorder. I could not make a phone call without sweating. I could not sign my name with someone watching. I could not speak to strangers without turning red. I could not go to school without a knot in my...
Summer Sabbatical
Summer is here. The world is screaming it. The trees have leaves, the grass is green, the sun is shining, and my son’s school is ending. The question comes up quite frequently: What are you going to do to keep busy this summer? Almost daily we receive fliers from...
Am I Called? Seeking Answers in Life Change
"Trust God with the details, you were called!" "God has called you, it's all going to be great!" "I'm so excited to see what God's going to do as you follow God's call." I heard lines like this over and over again as we prepared to leave our home in Colorado to be...
Giving Up the Normal Life
Jennifer Garner is my new hero. On the Ellen show, she faced rumors concerning her "baby bump" with confidence, poise, and style. Smiling triumphantly, she said, I do [have a bump]... I am not pregnant. I have had three kids and there is a bump. From now on ladies I...