I spent my 20s and 30s in denial.  I was lying to myself about how bad my marriage really was.  I didn’t want to see the truth, because I was scared of what it would mean…scared of losing the sweet little life that I had crafted for myself.

But somewhere along the way, my heart began to shift.  I became, thankfully, so uncomfortable in that life that I knew something had to change.

Muriel Rukeyser magnificently sums it up: “What would happen if one woman told the truth about her life? The world would split open.”

And that, my friend, is exactly what happened.  My world, as I knew it, split open, burned down and basically vanished.  I do not even recognize the girl I used to be or the life I used to lead, and I’m just now discovering the woman that I am.

And all of this has happened through the catharsis of writing.  I have written journals, letters, emails, blogs, articles, and books.  I have spilled my emotional insides out on the page, some for only God to see.  Some, although shockingly honest, for the world.

And here’s why. Because I’m done hiding.  Because keeping the truth tamped down is in my rearview mirror.  Because the truth does a lot of things but one of the best is it sets us free.

I will never go back to the girl who kept all her secrets so that no one would ever know/find out/judge/accuse/shame.  That girl is gone.

From this point on, I will only live, speak and write the truth.  And frankly, I hope my world splits open again and again.


Elisabeth Klein Fisher
Elisabeth is a new wife, a mom and stepmom to five kids, an author, blogger, speaker and mentor. Her passion is helping hurting women by bringing them hope.


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  1. “I hope my world splits open again and again.” I love this, and I think that has always been my prayer when I head to the page with my pen. Thank you for this courageous post.

  2. Good for you, Elizabeth! You learned this before you turned 50. It took me a lot longer to get to this healthy place in life. Keep living the REAL life with Jesus by your side and you will impact many lives!

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